Why do we all want to be “The Exception? You know exactly what I’m talking about. We all have this desire to be the exception. Let me ask you a question…have you ever met someone who was the exception? Probably not. I know I’ve clearly never been the exception and I’ve never met someone who has been. This brings me to the dreaded topic of…the karmic cycle.
I believe in a lot of things, two of them being: Once a cheater always a cheater and If they will cheat with you, they’ll cheat against you. This is called Karma.
Karma has no deadline, I would know. I was involved with someone who was in a relationship for a very brief period. I’ll defend us for a second and anyone else in a similar situation, I GET IT. Love happens, love happens unexpectedly and I totally believe that. They say life is what happens while your busy making other plans; love is what happens when you’re in a bad relationship. I’m not defending cheaters because I have been the “other woman.” I was only sixteen years old, so some would say it doesn’t count. I believe that it does, I think it counts when you talk about it in terms of the karmic cycle.
I ended up dating this guy for six years, spent two years engaged to him and one year married to him. I can’t help but wonder if the reason behind our divorce was partially my fault. Was this karma catching up to me? If so, karma you certainly are a bitch. I got to thinking today about this thing called karma…and I’m pretty sure karma doesn’t believe in good timing or balance. For example, you steal from someone, could be something like a DVD….karma comes back around almost ten years later and someone burns your house down, karma isn’t fair, so be careful. I believe the business world would consider this type of karma; interest. It took Karma ten years to catch up so you get a little something extra.
Why do bad things happen to good people? It’s simple, there is no such thing as a “good” person. Even the best of people have their secrets.
Why do good things happen to bad people? That’s simple too, karma just hasn’t caught up to them yet.
“You’ll never understand the damage you did until someone else does the same to you, that’s why I’m here.” Karma
Here’s a few things for you to ponder….
- Don’t apologize for being a bitch. No one has EVER apologized to you for treating you like shit and bringing out the bitch in you.
- Don’t wish bad karma on others…let the players play, let the haters hate and let karma handle their fate.
- Should you ever find yourself the victim of other people’s bitterness, smallness, or insecurities, remember things could be worse…you could be them.